Talk to Her
ACTIONS SPEAK
THEN COULDA, SHOULDA, WOULDA
Do you ever get that feeling like someone is going to kill you when you want to talk to that one girl you find extremely hot at the supermarket? It's an unexplainable scary feeling. We all at one point or another experience it. Just remember, it's nothing! It's nothing, its nothing. Well, actually...it is something. It's a small thing called it's all in your mind!!
Don't let fear get in the way of talking to the girl of your dreams. Or, that is all they will ever be, a dream! What's the worst that can happen? She say no? A no is better then experiencing that horrible fear and not do anything about it. Talk to her, because if you don't the fear will never go away when talking to other women!
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Cain Caser: Visual Hierarchy
CAIN CASER: ABSTRACT PORTRAITS
"The paintings have been conceived as portraits. Occupying the gap between figuration and abstraction they exploit the tendency to see faces where none exist and in turn be interpreted according to an individuals own unique visual hierarchy."
I pretty much discovered the work of Cain Caser about 2 days ago. I am pretty aware of what is happening in art and design. So, when I discovered the maturity and energy of Caser's work I was very confused why I have never seen it before or why he isn't more popular. That is art for you! At any case, his Flickr page is endless eye candy.
His work makes you think of so many well-known painters yet the integrity of his work shines above all. When looking at his work on the computer screen, it is very difficult to determine whether his paintings are digital, collage or what. But, after much research they are collaged paintings with mixed media and photocopies as well. Below is a quote from an interview he did with Sick of the Radio.
CAIN CASER:
"As a kid growing up I was obsessed with graffiti. I lived near the end of the Metropolitan line so everything that was going on in London was delivered straight to my doorstep. The people, style, mystery and adventure of it completely fascinated me.By twelve years of age I had started writing graffiti and at sixteen it was dominating my life."
Via: Sick of the Radio + Cain Caser
The Unemployed Man
In The Matter of The Unemployed Man
It is very evident the economy we live in wreaks hovac in our relationships, or family lives. More and more of our men are becoming unemployed. And alot of them had invested time in their jobs only to wake up and loose it all (or so it seems) which leaves the woman of the household the provider of the family. As a woman it is so easy for "making a way" to kick in. It is natural for us as we are nurturers. We just do what we know, what we were taught to do. However, what we were not taught was to support the man when a problem like this hits us.
We view our men as strong, and able to handle business and when that is out of alignment so is the relationship/family and I won't leave out emotions. I hear alot of women complain that their husbands need to look for other ways to get a job, or that they are tired of going home to him sitting on the couch, or that since he is home dinner should be cooked and the house should be spotless. I could go on and on about the emotional rollercoaster in which some of us are taken. It's funny because out of all that, I never hear them support him and lift him up in prayer. The negative of the situation always gets the attention. It seems as tearing him down is the easiest route to go.
There are alot of single women who when you ask if they would consider dating a man who was unemployed would say "NO, he has to have a job before I enter a relationship with him." Imagine what kind of stain that is to the man who is trying really hard to find a job. It is important for us to remember that even though he is a man, does not take away from the point that he has feelings to. Not being able to provide for his family is heart breaking in itself. Seeing his wife/girlfriend picking up his slack is another blow and the final blow to him is that he has no support from her. For him a sense of responsibility was lost when he lost his job.
I always say that with every cause there is an effect. With him being unemployed there comes many effects behind it,
Communication~ Communicaton may be lost between he and his mate.
Family~ He may feel as if he let his family down.
Sex life~ It dwindles because of him feeling like a failure
Depression~ From being rejected by one job prospect to another
Apperance~ He no longer recognized himself in the mirror because the hurt and pain is now showing on the outside
It is important for us(women) to encourage him. He is the head of the household and no amount of money can change that. However what can change is our ability to stay grounded and build him back up. In order to make him go he needs the support from family and friends. It is very important to allow him to remain the head of the household and we can do that by not stripping him of his duties at home. The economy has already done that, he does not need it at home. Continue to talk to him, ask him how his day went (Yes, even if you already know.) Tell him how your day went. Communication is key. And most importantly show him affection a lot of it. He will appreciate it, and feed off of it.
This economy is not partial to anyone. There are alot of unemployed women as well and being unemployed does not take away from the person we are. The only ingredients needed to make it through is FAITH AND LOVE....
Until next time,
Coach Kim
Integrative Health Coach
Formula for US Peace
"I am just absolutely convinced that the best formula for giving us peace and preserving the American way of life is freedom, limited government, and minding our own business overseas."
- Ron Paul
Swag is for Boys
Whoa, Cindy Whitehead
Cindy Whitehead great old school rider! She’s in the Mountain Bike Hall of Fame 1990.
Nuff Said
Via: The 5th Floor
Did you see what I see...
Happy Birthday Ownzee
Happy Birthday!
Ownzee turns one today :-)
Alex Yanes: Elephants
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Alex Yanes was born in Miami , July 20th 1977. His art is characterized by the romanticism and sublimeness of its color, content, and the deliberate precision of its form and lines. It is the duality between the conceptual and the graphical that makes his art both inspiring and accessible. Yanes' art serves as a metaphor for the conflict between reason and imagination and the divided nature of the human spirit.
Along with vivid colors, he uses bold outlines to define his intricate figures. His most recent works are mixed media, three dimensional images. This process consists of drawing then cutting the image out of panels using power tools. Once they are cut, the individual pieces of the puzzle are sanded and painted using a mixture of acrylic , spray enamel and epoxy resin. Finally , the pieces are attached in multiple layers, revealing a multi-dimensional experience. Yanes is represented by Michael Margulies.
Elephant in the Room
Pat Robertson - Legalize Weed Now!
Pat Robertson for Legalized Marijuana
YOU HEARD RIGHT!
Of the many roles Pat Robertson has assumed over his five-decade-long career as an evangelical leader — including presidential candidate and provocative voice of the right wing — his newest guise may perhaps surprise his followers the most: marijuanalegalization advocate.
“I really believe we should treat marijuana the way we treat beverage alcohol,” Mr. Robertson said in an interview on Wednesday. “I’ve never used marijuana and I don’t intend to, but it’s just one of those things that I think: this war on drugs just hasn’t succeeded.”
Mr. Robertson’s remarks echoed statements he made last week on “The 700 Club,” the signature program of his Christian Broadcasting Network, and other comments he made in 2010. While those earlier remarks were largely dismissed by his followers, Mr. Robertson has now apparently fully embraced the idea of legalizing marijuana, arguing that it is a way to bring down soaring rates of incarceration and reduce the social and financial costs.
“I believe in working with the hearts of people, and not locking them up,” he said.
Mr. Robertson’s remarks were hailed by pro-legalization groups, who called them a potentially important endorsement in their efforts to roll back marijuana penalties and prohibitions, which residents of Colorado and Washington will vote on this fall.
Source: NY Times
By: Jesse McKinley
Mo Chix, Mo Stix, Mo Flix
FLICKS.FLICKS.FLICKS
Hey boys and girls, it's that time again. I put together a collage of photos for your enjoyment. Get crunka dunk, its Thursday!
A Puppy is but a Dog
A puppy is but a dog, plus high spirits, and minus common sense.
You Get What You...
Quinta Witzel for Nylon (Mar. 2012)
QUINTA WITZEL
By Justin Hollar for Nylon March 2012
Pink Lady – Quinta Witzel sports pastel spring looks for Justin Hollar’s colorful images featured in Nylon’s March issue. Garbed in ladylike pieces from labels such as Marc Jacobs, Louis Vuitton and Chanel selected by stylist James Rosenthal, Quinta keeps a laid-back attitude with pink hair Martin-Christopher Harper and flawless makeup by Natasha Smee. / Manicurist by Kelly B
Source: Fashion Gone Rogue
Plotting at IHop
It's simple. We kill the Batman.
Bruce Willis and Confidence
#PimpinAintEasy
"I've always had confidence. Before I was famous, that confidence got me into trouble. After I got famous, it just got me into more trouble."
- Bruce Willis
People Present....
Real Beauty at every age
People Magazine is hosting a contest titled "Real Beauty at Every Age. I thought it would be fun to enter, so I did. Why not? This year I turn 40 years old and I want to do all I have been putting off for years. We only have one life, so why not live it to the fullest?
But I need your help to win. All you have to do is log on to vote for me.
Go here and vote.
Thanks for voting for me.
Coach Kim
A lesson in being lonely
What do the lonely do?
Some mistake symptoms of loneliness for the symptoms of depression. It is easy to get the two mixed up. Loneliness can cause a person to become isolated from others out of fear. They try really hard to get back to the point of where they used to be, however they rarely are able to do it. The symptoms of lonliness and depression are so close together that Dr.'s usually end up just treating you for depression as it is a symptom of being lonely. The Dr.'s never treat the core of the problem, which leaves the person to deal with it on their own.
People are lonely for a number of reasons. Like depression, it is because they are lacking something in an area in their lives which causes them to be lonely. Some of those reasons are:
Being Single or having no prospects
Divorce
Death of a loved one
Employment
Moving away
There are plenty other reasons for being lonely, this is just a few. However these few things comes carrying a heavy punch. Being lonely can cause very serious health issues. Some of the health issues that come with being lonely are:
Severe headaches
Weight Gain, Weight loss
Fatigue
Feeling of worthlessness
Depression
Anger
People who are lonely normally isolate themselves from others out of fear of rejection.They tend to find things to do by themselves so that they won't have to go through rejection.Even though they are isolated, they long for interaction, however fear takes over and they become very anti-social. When they do meet someone who wants to spend the quality time with them, they usually run them away by being too clingy and obsessive. But they never see it as something they are doing wrong, the only thing they see is that they were just rejected so they withdraw themselves again. This process will last as long as they go untreated and it could get worse.
If not treated being lonely could eventually turn into things that will help take the pain away for them such as alcohol, Drugs, and abuse of food or maybe even other people.
If you or someone you know suffers fromt he above system, make it a point to talk to them and get them the help that is needed.
Until next time,
Coach Kim
"Lonliness is the most terrible poverty"
Mother Theresa
....a.dan.ybor.amazing celebration of the mix.
Celebration of the mix is about my genetic
background and how I was created in ybor city in tampa, fl and how everybody got together there.
It was because of a tobacco product called a "Cigar" back in the day a long time ago they made more cigars than any other place in the world.
Here is that story that has to be told and the truth that has to be said once and for all to be heard.
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